Saturday, April 3, 2010

WTF***!!!

Well nothing so very big to write about either, but this is the best i can do right now.

Mom’s watching this super-lame tamil program on some lame channel.. It’s about how women today aren’t being feminine enough..(to put it )

But why so?
Cos they wear pant-shirt.
Cos they have boy-cut-hair
Cos they wear shoes
Cos they try to ape men
Cos men are the dominant personality in our society and nobody will marry a girl with the above mentioned attributes.

Somebody please for God sake ask them to grow up!!

The Sunday-morning show almost every week on another lame channel with the why-should-women-work-to-when-they-better-watch-the-kids-at-home was way way better trust me…

I would groan every time somebody goes "But why aren't women being women? It’s their duty to serve their husband cos he is like God "
But today's was the limit. The limit.

So it goes like this..
It’s a cheap imitation of a debate.
On one side there are women dressed in pant-shirt with boy-cut who speak english (yeah right..if saying "i am kind of like this" counts). Yeah they look sick. Big time wannabes. i mean why dress that way just for the heck of it??

On the other side are behenjis (the tamil version, well M mixed version of both behenji n Tom) wearing saree and choodidar (lol!!! gimme a break!!) with flowers on their head who think they impress men and are the most perfects daughters-in-law designed by mother earth (tamil nadu rather).

So a saree says to pant-shirt, "being a girl how can you dress this way ?"
Pant-shirt: Cos I am comfortable in it.
And so immediately there’s this huge discussion on how the pant-shirt women tend to be more arrogant and don’t respect men (cos the anchor was a man).
So after a while they come back to the debate
Saree : how can you wear pant-shirt being a girl
(well thats all they said all through the show trying their best to rephrase it by blaming pant-shirt)
Pant-shirt: I’m comfortable in it. You can’t drive in saeree. But you can in pant-shirt. (Felt like gtng into the TV n slapping tht Tom-Tom.. I can go zoom on my bike or car even when m wearing saree or chuddi)
Saree : So why can’t you wear choodidar and drive?
Pant-shirt: I’ve seen many women doing that but they have to tie back their duppatas. So this is a permanent way of getting rid of it. (sounded like sme Carefree add BullS***t) even when i drive a car, my duppata will keep slipping and ill lose my concentration in pulling it back and Madam chudidhar say something else lame like why should you drive? and they reply cos we have to work.

so next big question: why should women work at all odd hours? and something lame and uninteresting happens..
and then a saree who unfortunately happens to be wearing salwaar kameez chooodidar says something stupid to pant-shirt who says "but why are you wearing choodidar ?? You should also wear saeree" and dumb choodidar is gaping at the camera speechless unable to say anything but trying to act as if it’s too stupid a question to answer. I mean how can she be so goddamn stupid so as not able to say "cos its Indian!". What the F**** does she think she is arguing about? ok debating!!!!!

Whatever, another one says cos they have moved from saree to choodidar. (ROTFL)
So they say "and we haved moved on from choodidar to pant-shirt"
and about female says, being born as a girl is a boon and wearing pant-shirt is abusing their feminity!!!

And they ask a guy if he would marry a pant-shirt and he says no and another saree tries to justify his answer. They say that every household likes to see other daughters-in-law wearing pant-shirt. However they couldn’t accept such a person as their daughter-in-law..

They even ask the pant-shirts how their husbands accepted them they way they were!!!! And they say the pant-shirt women look like men from behind and well i don’t remember the rest... it just goes on and on.... I mean it stretches over an hour, probably close to two too but it never seems to end.

And finally the anchor says "we've had women change from saeree to choodidar and future maybe to pant shirt "... (in which world he is)

Well ... Isn’t that the lamest thing ever???? All i can say is "Somebody please ask them to grow up!! To wake up!!! For heaven’s sake!!!"

This shows how stupid people can be, and not a single pant-shirt there could say "It’s my life, so what i wear is entirely my choice, be it a sari or not. And if you have anything about it, keep it to yourself (maybe not, cos it was a debate)"

But really with all the confusion in the country is this the MOST important or even entertaining program they could find????

And to think loads of mothers-in-law sit and watch it with eyes wide open thinking of how bad their daughter-in-law was..

By the way, i did not watch the whole of it... that was just around 15 or 20 minutes of it.
????? GRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!!!!!

3 comments:

amitlogic said...

In disguise of the Big debate u have well utilized the opportunity to express ur free will...i too agree with ur point but there is a catch in it. "It’s my life, so what i wear is entirely my choice, be it a sari or not." gets extended to any form of expression of free will...today its just a matter of sari and pant-shirt...tomorrow someone may say that s/he is most comfortable in b'day suit...does it mean that you go on to allow that, just because its their free will. I believe that more than the male/female dominance being cause of dresses they wear, it is more so dependent on work they are involved in...if the change of socio culture and work requires there is no issue in going for attire change...few days back our minister for environment was very critical about the convocation gown. So it is more so on what is comfortable and socially acceptable :-)

Mahi said...

Hey, ur missing in action.. Thanks for ur valuable comments! Agreed :-)

amitlogic said...

i am anyway not that active being here... but i thought it was u who was missing in action :-)