WTF***!!!

Well nothing so very big to write about either, but this is the best i can do right now.

Mom’s watching this super-lame tamil program on some lame channel.. It’s about how women today aren’t being feminine enough..(to put it )

But why so?
Cos they wear pant-shirt.
Cos they have boy-cut-hair
Cos they wear shoes
Cos they try to ape men
Cos men are the dominant personality in our society and nobody will marry a girl with the above mentioned attributes.

Somebody please for God sake ask them to grow up!!

The Sunday-morning show almost every week on another lame channel with the why-should-women-work-to-when-they-better-watch-the-kids-at-home was way way better trust me…

I would groan every time somebody goes "But why aren't women being women? It’s their duty to serve their husband cos he is like God "
But today's was the limit. The limit.

So it goes like this..
It’s a cheap imitation of a debate.
On one side there are women dressed in pant-shirt with boy-cut who speak english (yeah right..if saying "i am kind of like this" counts). Yeah they look sick. Big time wannabes. i mean why dress that way just for the heck of it??

On the other side are behenjis (the tamil version, well M mixed version of both behenji n Tom) wearing saree and choodidar (lol!!! gimme a break!!) with flowers on their head who think they impress men and are the most perfects daughters-in-law designed by mother earth (tamil nadu rather).

So a saree says to pant-shirt, "being a girl how can you dress this way ?"
Pant-shirt: Cos I am comfortable in it.
And so immediately there’s this huge discussion on how the pant-shirt women tend to be more arrogant and don’t respect men (cos the anchor was a man).
So after a while they come back to the debate
Saree : how can you wear pant-shirt being a girl
(well thats all they said all through the show trying their best to rephrase it by blaming pant-shirt)
Pant-shirt: I’m comfortable in it. You can’t drive in saeree. But you can in pant-shirt. (Felt like gtng into the TV n slapping tht Tom-Tom.. I can go zoom on my bike or car even when m wearing saree or chuddi)
Saree : So why can’t you wear choodidar and drive?
Pant-shirt: I’ve seen many women doing that but they have to tie back their duppatas. So this is a permanent way of getting rid of it. (sounded like sme Carefree add BullS***t) even when i drive a car, my duppata will keep slipping and ill lose my concentration in pulling it back and Madam chudidhar say something else lame like why should you drive? and they reply cos we have to work.

so next big question: why should women work at all odd hours? and something lame and uninteresting happens..
and then a saree who unfortunately happens to be wearing salwaar kameez chooodidar says something stupid to pant-shirt who says "but why are you wearing choodidar ?? You should also wear saeree" and dumb choodidar is gaping at the camera speechless unable to say anything but trying to act as if it’s too stupid a question to answer. I mean how can she be so goddamn stupid so as not able to say "cos its Indian!". What the F**** does she think she is arguing about? ok debating!!!!!

Whatever, another one says cos they have moved from saree to choodidar. (ROTFL)
So they say "and we haved moved on from choodidar to pant-shirt"
and about female says, being born as a girl is a boon and wearing pant-shirt is abusing their feminity!!!

And they ask a guy if he would marry a pant-shirt and he says no and another saree tries to justify his answer. They say that every household likes to see other daughters-in-law wearing pant-shirt. However they couldn’t accept such a person as their daughter-in-law..

They even ask the pant-shirts how their husbands accepted them they way they were!!!! And they say the pant-shirt women look like men from behind and well i don’t remember the rest... it just goes on and on.... I mean it stretches over an hour, probably close to two too but it never seems to end.

And finally the anchor says "we've had women change from saeree to choodidar and future maybe to pant shirt "... (in which world he is)

Well ... Isn’t that the lamest thing ever???? All i can say is "Somebody please ask them to grow up!! To wake up!!! For heaven’s sake!!!"

This shows how stupid people can be, and not a single pant-shirt there could say "It’s my life, so what i wear is entirely my choice, be it a sari or not. And if you have anything about it, keep it to yourself (maybe not, cos it was a debate)"

But really with all the confusion in the country is this the MOST important or even entertaining program they could find????

And to think loads of mothers-in-law sit and watch it with eyes wide open thinking of how bad their daughter-in-law was..

By the way, i did not watch the whole of it... that was just around 15 or 20 minutes of it.
????? GRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!!!!!

Rain-Rain-Pls-Come-Again!

It was raining and I couldn't stop myself from going out and dancing and then coming back inside and drinking a hot cup of cocoa sitting huddled up near my window with a book.

Theres no point in being grown up if you cant be childish sometimes, someone had said.

B-A-C-K aftr a short B-R-E-A-K!

Ok I'm kind of back. I was travelling like crazy, bored of office and when i came back our year end closure started and when they got over, well I just couldn't get myself to blog.

Thats a Lot of excuses but I'm not lying :D

I have a lotttttsssss of stuff to write so I thought I'd come back to blogging before I developed one of those blocks again.

So I'm back!! :D

Go - JUMP!!

On a saturday morning at 9.00am we were stuck in a closed conference room and everyone around me was droning on and on. I was sitting in ths agonizingly boring quarterly financial meeting... N the group was hashing and re-hashing an issue that was - or should have been - already resolved.

I was sitting and counting verbal tics of someone whom i hate to the core in my team for smetime..Yes, I know it's childish. But,it was fun.

Post lunch, I was BORED... EXTREMELY!!!
DRONING... :O

And pinged my other colleague who was online on MSN..

Mahi Prakash says: Hey sauce... wass up
Sashi Singh says: Nothing much swty
Mahi Prakash says:I'm so bored yaar.
Sashi Singh says: Same here da.
Mahi Prakash says:: I've done everything except maybe Bungee jumping in my life.
Sashi Singh says: Then go jump!
Mahi says: :O :S

Go Jump, I still dont knw wht she meant, go bunggy jumping or is it she politely askd me to get lost. ???? :-S

Anyways, finally ths boring meeting went faster and gave me smething to laugh abt with my colleagues in the conf room... napping & snoring was out of the question aftr my chat wth Sashi...! :-)

AUR kaun hai??? ;)

I've been waitinggggg for a conversation like this to happen, to somebody else, if not to me.

N It did, at my friend's wedding:

I had been to chanpatna (near mysore)to attend my frnds wedding, He had booked a farm house for myself and his colleagues.. And b'caz i was the only girl i got the bedroom wth attached bathroom and his other colleagues slept in the hall as all the other rooms were occupied and were using common bathroom..

On the day of the marriage when i got ready n came dwn to the hall i saw 2 guys waiting fr the bathroom...

I knew one of them so i askd him to use my bathroom and gave him my room keys but the other south indian guy (swami) who was also waiting for the bathroom got very irritated and shouted at the North Indian guy inside, "Abbe kitni der se udhar kar kya raha hai??!!!"

The guy inside (a Bihari) replies, "Hum naha rahein hain!!"

Swami (turned red):"Oh!! Aur kaun hain andar??"

Dont ask me wht was my reaction aftr listening to tht!!! :D:D

I've always liked calling myself "hum" though I don't do so. Stuff like this is bound to happen if I did!! :P

NO-Thing-Doing!! :-)

It feels so wonderful. So very wonderful. Right now, its the best feeling in the world!!!
:)
No I am not in love!
:|
My idea of the most wonderful feeling right now for me is the pleasure I get out of doing nothing. Absolutely nothing.
I've spent the entire weekend at home. I haven't done anything useful thing and yet I'm not bored.
Weird...!
All those weekends when I had submissions on Monday or a meeting or anything at all on Monday, I'd spend the weekend doing nothing, crib about being bored and not work at all.
So I'm feeling so very happy for not utilizing my weekend. Yaaay me!!! I wanted to watch a movie to celebrate it so I went and got "Veer".

N now I'm back to writing senseless posts again. (read rants).

Ok logging off - Lemme go do something more stupid and useless. ;)

Its such a phenomenal feeling I tell you. The feeling that you have done nothing!! :):):)

Finally...I think i know what i want...

I think i'm maturing. I think I'm finally getting to a stage in my life where i'm finding peace...where I don't feel that anxiety that I used to feel. We grow up thinking that our romantic life is the definition of our happiness... i'm a twenty two year old woman who has finally realized that there are other things in life that need to be explored. Someone recently told me that we cannot be happy with another person until we are happy with ourselves....I think he's right... and I think we should only get involved when we feel that the other person is also capable of making us happy... i realize it now that when people put obstacles they are really telling you that they don't have space for you in their lives...why should I force anything?

I'm maybe ready for things that person is not, and that's fine... if it's not him, it will be someone else. I believe that life has a funny way of working itself out and things happen if they are meant to happen... both people have to want it... we all have to be on equal footing and it's not fair for one to sacrifice more than the other...that's coming into a relationship also with a greater risk of getting hurt than the other person. With that said, i will continue investing in love but only if it happens naturally, i will no longer force it to happen with whom i want it to happen with and when i want it to happen...

I believe love will come my way one day... again... and that the person will be ready to give me what i want and vice versa... incredibly enough a person that used to make me feel vulnerable and weak is helping me find a strength. I didn't know i had and I feel less vulnerable and more in control. I'm a wild horse... i shall run free.... and anyone that falls in love with me will not want to control me by trying to control the situation but will want to run free with me... It will be their loss anyways, not mine.... I always give one hundred percent of me when I care about someone so with that said, I will keep living my life and doing things that make me happy...and perhaps live a bit more and think less.... maybe kiss more without thinking of compromise. I'm no longer imprisioned to anyone anymore and that feels great!

Cheers...